Server looks fawked up?

Ok well this is what keeps happening, and excuse me for my language cause i've been trying to login since Sunday morning and this same crap continuously happens. I log in, select my char and as its going from the char selection screen to in-game I d/c. Help please. I don kno why im the only dam person this is happening to. and why are the forums so dead...?

Forums are dead because of school starting.

You disconnect at the character select screen? Does the game just close with no error or what? Usually the cause of things like this is a missing or edited file.